Breast Feeding Advice

Mama · 03-12-2007, 09:06 AM

Welcome to our monthly breastfeeding carnival. This month, the booby brigade is writing about breastfeeding advice. Good advice. Bad advice and everything in between. At the bottom of this post you'll find links to the other blogs.

So, now for my two cents. First off, I'd like to do a public service announcement for lactation consultants. As far as I'm concerned, these professionals, the ladies with the <a href=" http://www.iblce.org/index.html">IBCLC</a> credentials, are goddesses. These days, whenever a mom asks me for help, I tell her to find an LC. If she's in New York City, I refer her to <a href=" http://manhattanlactationgroup.com/">The Manhattan Lactation Group</a>. If she's elsewhere, I suggest she get recommendations from an OB, midwife, pediatrician, hospital or friend. If she can't come up with any recommendations, I'll refer her to the <a href=" http://www.ilca.org/">International Lactation Consultant Association </a>website. And most importantly, I'll add that not all LC's are created equal. They are just like any other professional. There are good plumbers and bad plumbers. Good lawyers and bad lawyers. Good LCs and bad LCs. 

Second, I'd like to make a pitch for being a bit obsessive-compulsive shortly after your baby is born. This, I think, is what got me off to a good start with both of our kids. I was udderly (couldn't resist the pun) fastidious about feeding them every 2 to 3 hours, around the clock, for 24 hours, for a couple of weeks. In practice, that meant that I started a feeding every 2 to 3 hours after I started the last feeding. For example, if I feed the baby at 9:00 am, I fed again at 11:00 am (for 2 hours) or 12:00 (for 3 hours). 

As I type this, it sounds insane. So crazy in fact, that I'm not sure I even actually did it. Did I really not sleep for more than a couple of hours at a stretch, for weeks on end? 

My husband assures me this is so. He remembers going to our son's two week check-up. I reportedly handed the pediatrician the meticulous log I had been keeping. The log in which I wrote down the time of day, the length of the feeding, which breast, the number of pees and the number of poops. "Here, this is for your files," I said to the doctor. "Oh, that's fine, I don't really need it. Your baby's weight is just fine," he replied.

That was the end of my record keeping. In any case, after a few weeks, both kids started to go longer stretches, eating every 3 to 4 hours. By 12 weeks, they practically slept through the night. Later on, of course, they fell off the wagon and went back to eating in the middle of the night. But that's another story.

My point is that I think it was my nearly maniacal attention to the feeding schedule that helped me establish my milk supply and get the kids on the right track. If they didn't wake up on their own, I woke them to eat. If they were still sleepy, I stripped them to their diapers, tickled their cheeks and lips, even dug my fingernail into the heel of their feet. When the hospital nurse wouldn't release one of the kids from the nursery (because he had been spitting up black stuff), I practically banged down to the door to get in and feed him. I also put a big note on his bassinet saying "No bottles or pacifiers. Only breast milk."

Honestly, I don't know if it was this schedule, or sheer luck, that made breastfeeding work. And it was so exhausting, that I'm always afraid to tell pregnant friends what I did, lest they get scared off. Additionally, what worked for me, may not work for everyone. I'm not an LC. Just another mom, who muddled through this breastfeeding thing as best she could.

So that's my bit of motherly advice. Now, if you want to hear what some other mamas have to say, check out these blogs:

We've got the regulars from the Booby Brigade: The Lactivist, <a href=" http://www.breastfeeding123.com/">Breastfeeding123</a>, the <a href=" http://breastfeeding.blog.motherwear.com/2007/03/the_fifth_carni.html">Motherwear Breastfeeding Blog,</a> and <a href=" http://breastfeedingmums.typepad.com/breastfeedingmums_blog/2007/03/breastfeeding_b.html">Breastfeeding Mums</a>. We've also got a bunch of guest bloggers: <a href=" http://blackbreastfeeding.blogspot.com/2007/02/best-breastfeeding-advice-i-ever-got.html">Black Breastfeeding Blog</a>, <a href=" http://mochamilk.blogspot.com/2007/03/welcome-to-march-carnival-of.html">Mocha Milk</a>, <a href=" http://cairomama.blogspot.com/2007/03/good-advice-this-is-not-test.html">Cairo Mama,</a> <a href=" http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/03/11/if-only-i-had-known/">The Twinkies</a> and the <a href=" http://thebabygravytrain.blogspot.com/2007/02/best-breastfeeding-advice.html">Baby Gravy Train.</a> 


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